I ask the kids every night, "do you feel happy and loved?", "what was the best part of your day?", and "what did you do nice for someone else today?".
I usually get awesome answers. It differs every night. But tonight's answer from Garett was typical Garett.
Me: Happy and loved?
Garett: Yes.
Me: What was the best part of your day?
Garett: Basketball.
Me: What did you do nice for someone today?
Garett: I solved a dispute.
Me: Really? That's great. What was the dispute?
Garett: John and Casey were arguing about who was faster.
Me: How did you solve it?
Garett: I raced them. And won.